"I want to make my wife fall in love with me all over again," said the man who felt that his marriage was slowly coming apart. Unfortunately, the way we feel on our wedding day isn't always the way we feel five or ten years down the road. Things do change and unfortunately sometimes feelings change too. If you can tell that your wife isn't feeling nearly as emotionally connected to you now as she did early in your marriage, it's something that you need to address. If you let this go unattended she could pull away from you so far that divorce is going to seem like the only logical option to her.
In order to make your wife fall in love again you have to think about what you did to capture her heart the first time around. As much as we mature and change as we grow older, fundamentally we're still the same people inside. Your wife fell in love with you for who you were back in the early days, so try to find that man inside you now. If you were more attentive to her needs then, uncover that within you again. If you were more outgoing and fun loving, rediscover those parts of you. Show your wife that even though you may have a few less hairs on your head or you've added a few extra pounds around your middle, you're still that same man who couldn't live without her when you two first became married.
Do you often tell your wife just how much she means to you? Most of us start to express our feelings less and less as our marriage matures. We just make these assumptions that our spouse will understand and know what we feel. They don't always. You have to tell your wife that she's the only woman for you. Show her that by holding her hand when you two are out in public. Open the car door for her more often and bring her coffee in the morning. Telling her and showing her how deeply you cherish her is incredibly important if you want to make her love you again. If she feels the level of your adoration for her it will help her to open up more again.
Boosting your wife's self confidence is another way to get her to feel more connected to you. We all tend to see the worst in ourselves and if our partner doesn't remind us of our redeeming qualities, we can soon start to struggle with a lack of self esteem. Your wife may have pulled her emotions back because she's not happy with the person she is. We all need encouragement in life so become that voice for your wife. Tell her what you admire about her. Explain to her how proud you are of her. Doing this will definitely help her to see herself through your loving eyes and that will help rebuild your marriage and your bond with her.
No comments:
Post a Comment